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It’s a SHORE thing

I have news! No, I’m not pregnant! My husband and I are moving! I was offered a Marketing Manager position in Santa Cruz, California… and I accepted! Moving to California has been a little dream of ours for a long time and magically, everything recently fell into place! I can remember, 4 years ago in our first year of marriage, we told ourselves we’d be in California in 5 years. And look at us! We made it in 4!

 

(Photo by Heather Wilhelm via Found in the Central Coast)

I’m going to miss my family and friends more than anything, but for some reason, this move just feels right. You only live once and we’re ready to take on this adventure together. To get back to us and discover what God has is store for us and for our marriage. We’re flying out this weekend to look for places – I’m so excited! I saw a really beautiful quote this week that has set my heart at ease throughout all of this, since I’ve been sort of a wreck. It may calm your heart, too if you’re dealing with distance:

“Distance is nothing when two people are close with their hearts. Emotional closeness conquers physical closeness any day.”
Joy, Life

Waiting for someday

I receive DailyOM emails and if you don’t receive anything like this, I highly recommend it. I look forward to these daily emails and feel so happy after reading them. Yesterday’s DailyOM particularly hit close to home, as we have some exciting things going on around here.

I wanted to share the message with you in hopes you may be able to apply it to your own life. I love how they wrap ‘joy’ into it, too.

Waiting for Someday 
Why Not Now? 

All the joy and passion you can envision can be yours right now, rather than in a future point in time. 

The time we are blessed with is limited and tends to be used up all too quickly. How we utilize that time is consequently one of the most important decisions we make. Yet it is far too easy to put off until tomorrow what we are dreaming of today. The hectic pace of modern existence affords us an easy out; we shelve our aspirations so we can cope more effectively with the challenges of the present, ostensibly to have more time and leisure to realize our purpose in the future. Or we tell ourselves that we will chase our dreams someday once we have accomplished other lesser goals. In truth, it is our fear that keeps us from seeking fulfillment in the here and now—because we view failure as a possibility, our reasons for delaying our inevitable success seem sound and rational. If we ask ourselves what we are really waiting for, however, we discover that there is no truly compelling reason why we should put off the pursuit of the dreams that sustain us.

When regarded as a question, “Why not now?” drains us of our power to realize our ambitions. We are so concerned with the notion that we are somehow undeserving of happiness that we cannot see that there is much we can do in the present to begin courting it. Yet when we look decisively at our existence and state, “Why not now, indeed!” we are empowered to begin changing our lives this very moment. We procrastinate for many reasons, from a perceived lack of time to a legitimate lack of self-belief, but the truth of the matter is that there is no time like the present and no time but the present. Whatever we aim to accomplish, we will achieve it more quickly and with a greater degree of efficiency when we seize the day and make the most of the resources we have at our disposal presently.

All the joy, passion, and contentment you can envision can be yours right now, rather than in some far-flung point in time. You need only remind yourself that there is nothing standing between you and fulfillment. If you decide that today is the day you will take your destiny into your hands, you will soon discover that you hold the keys of fate.

Life

Need some joy

I’ve been a little stressed lately and I need your help. I need some joy! Life feels a little crazy right now. I don’t even have time to paint my toe nails! It’s so sad. My to-do lists keeping getting longer. My work days are filled to the gill, and now I’m on a vitamin kick to help my brain stay focused and my body fueled! I need to breathe. Or cry. Or take a Tylenol PM and peace out.

What helps you kick the stress? What brings you joy when you need it most? Do you say a special prayer? I only have a handful of followers but I’d love to hear from you!

 

 

 

 

 

 

p.s. I’m trying my first Ballet Fusion class this Friday and I’m so excited!

Friends, Life

Fall blogging party

My best friend Kristin and I LOVE to read blogs. We’d do it all day if we could. But there is just NOT enough time in the day and night to do so!

So… I came up with the idea of a Fall Blogging Party, where we could read blogs all night, watch Halloween movies and make some headway on our own blogs – all without being interrupted by our hubbies.

It was awesome.

Our Friday night started with take-out from Wildflower Bread Co., then Practical Magic, wine, Teen Witch, more wine, blogging and cookies!

 

 

 

I spent most of the night on these blogs:

We literally spent 6 hrs blogging! If you ever want an excuse to hang out with a girlfriend, make up a theme and formally invite her. It was silly to name our little get-together but we might make it a monthly/seasonal party! Let me know if you want to be invited to the next one!

Friends, Life

Another year

I just want to say that I think I had the best birthday EVER this year. Turning 28 was a lot more fun than I thought it’d be. Our night started with a little pre-show VIP gathering at Jack & Kristin’s for root beer float, whipped cream vodka martinis and mingling. Doesn’t Kristin have the best hand-writing?

 

My sweet Sarah made it out before her flight to New Jersey in the morning (yay!).

The boys and their scotch.

 

(Thanks Kristin for the pics!)

After we headed to B.A.D. (Bingo After Dark) Bingo at the Lone Butte Casino in Chandler. My friend Kristin stocked us with glow bands, and me with a tiara, lei and flashing rings. We had front-row seating to the bingo fun and dance floor and I’m pretty sure I danced more than I daubed my Bingo sheets. We all got pretty into it. Bingo was $7, the dauber $1 and the music was FREE (and non-stop)!! Pretty cheap outing if you ask me! Don’t mind these iPhone, no-flash pics, please:

 

 

I’m so thankful to have such amazing friends. They’re really the best.

A week later I was able to really dive into my birthday money. I’m very proud of how I spent it, too. Four pairs of shoes sounds about right ;)

But my favorite birthday gift of all may have been our new old-school dryer – given to us free from a friend’s neighbor. No more crispy towels! No more hanging clothes out on the line! We can do laundry in one night if we need to. It was the perfect birthday gift.

I’m in love with my friends!