Life

My new mantra

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Lately, I’ve been struggling. With a lot. Some days I feel like my joy is gone. Like I’m going to dry up in this state and blow away in the wind. Thankfully my best friend is pretty awesome and picked me up an essential oil I’ve been trying. Gratitude Attitude. That’s what life is about. Being thankful. I think it’s been helping me. Who cares if I live in Arizona, in the middle of the desert, on cement. I need to make the most of it. The most of family time and of careers. Of hobbies and friends. Of marriage. And most of all, of days with Jace. My little man. Every day is truly a blessing. It can’t be wasted. I’ll be working on my mindset and trying to remember the good things Arizona has to offer. Aside from my emotional roller coaster, how are you all?! Did you miss me? Ha. Hope you enjoy my blog look and new logo. I must say that I designed it! Yay.

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Must-haves for life with baby 6-12 months

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Well, life with baby from 6-12 months was pretty flippin’ awesome. It definitely brought on its challenges though, like teething, eating, and colds, so we quickly got into a habit of having our go-tos near us at all times.

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Perfecting sleep:

1. Crane humidifier. We actually invested in this late in the game, but once we did, it made Jace’s sleeping habits even that much better. If you haven’t already registered for a humidifer, you need to. Get it as early on as possible. Helps when they get little baby colds, too.

2. Night light. We loved these little woodland creature night lights — just enough glow to make him feel safe. You might want a few of these little critters though.

3. Bedtime reading. For us, it was Good Night Moon and Aloha Honu on disc (Also, Lullaby and Goodnight and On The Night You Were Born, such sweet books!). Aloha Honu will crack you up, especially when one of the water colorings are of two sea turtles mating, but the music is relaxing and the children’s voices somehow soothing. We had the book on DVD, but I’m sure you could buy the CD of the music or stories . . or the actual book.

4. A soft security blanket. Jace is obsessed with his monkey blanket. Sleeps better with, won’t leave without it, has to know where it’s at, loves to chew on it, loves to snuggle in. It’s his best friend. Which reminds me, I need to buy a back-up of it online somewhere.

5. Huggies OverNites. The best diaper to go all night so you’re little one is comfortable and not disturbed by a little wetness.

Colds & Teething:

6. The Honest Co. Organic Breathe Easy chest rub. It’s one of the worst things in life to watch your little baby suffer from a stuffed nose,  to hear them cough and struggle to breathe. This organic chest rub is seriously amazing. Clears and smears, and smells nice. Doesn’t irritate and truly helps baby.

7. Children’s Tylenol. Great for teething babies wanting a little bit of relief, or a fever you want to stabilize. We used it when it was needed. A must have for the medicine cabinet. But, I just read this, so now I’m a little scuurred. Definitely talk to your pediatrician and do your research on what’s recommended to give to your baby for teething, fevers or a cold.

8. Vick’s anal thermometer, the way to a true temperature. Easy to use and very accurate. We pulled this baby out a lot. With Jace getting sick a few times, it was most helpful to manage his temperature without calling our emergency Pediatrician hot line every hour.

9. Iced teething hand. Numbing the gums really helped our little boy. You definitely want to have a few of these clean and on hand, iced up and read for their gums.

10. Chewbeads. Jace LOVED these. I rarely wore it, I just threw at him to chew on. Best gift ever.

Eating & Play:

11, Puffs. ‘Nuff said.

12. This chair made it so we could always eat as a family. Secure and the perfect little seat to fit his cute little body.

13. Mesh pops. Or, whatever they’re called. We wouldn’t leave the house without these, with some fruit packed. You can basically put anything you want in these. But, steer away from blackberries; those suckers stain!

14. Mini basketball hoop. This entertained Jace for HOURS. Literally. Plus, it helps that his mom and dad like to play around with it in his bedroom ;)

15. Talking Tyler. We discovered this app early on with babe, but still use it to this day. He laughs, farts, burps, copies your voice in a helium-infused tone, kicks around a soccer ball, and more. Not very educational, but down right hilarious.

16. XBOX Remote. Of course he didn’t play, but he got so lost in pressing all the buttons! He would focus on what he was pressing, and then keep pressing it.

17. Scout. Another digital friend, yes, but he’s real-life cuddly, and calls Jace by his name, plays songs and bedtime music. He’s a sweet little friend and it’s so easy to go online and customize with your baby’s favorite foods and animals.

Family

My sister to the rescue

It was one of those days. A long one and I was on the verge of tears. I’m currently trying to ween Jace off the bottle (which he hates) and he was getting sick (or maybe teething, who knows), so after a crazy day of driving around, late napping, crying, clinging to my legs, lunches & snacks, stroller rides, music and stair climbing, I was about to just let him cry in the middle of the kitchen.  I was spent. Thankfully my sister came over for dinner. Sister to the rescue. She played with him, distracted him while I got dinner ready. I was also able to clean, put the toys away and get his bedtime routine in order. I was so thankful for my sister in that moment, to love Jace so much and occupy him while I had a little bit of sanity.  How nice to have family around to give your son lovies so you can take a breather. I love you, Pam. Thank you. I’m so lucky to have you as my sister.

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California, Life

Saying goodbye to California.

BigSurThe decision to move back to Arizona was a hard one. We both had good jobs in California. Good friends. Good landlords. Good weather. But family won us over in the end. So, we started making all of the arrangements to move, and soon the weekend came for Rob to go back to start his new job, and it was our last weekend in California together. So, for Valentine’s Day we went for a drive along the coast. We opened the moon roof, we put the Summer Mix CD in .. we took in the ocean air and California smells one last time together,  and said goodbye. The ocean road took us to Big Sur for most of the day. We stopped at McWay Falls for an easy hike along the ocean. After, we stopped at Nepenthe to watch the sun set over the water. God must have known we were saying goodbye because he gave us the bluest sky that day. The air was warm, with a small chill around evening. Big Sur was busy with adventure seekers for the long holiday weekend, every hotel along the 1 was occupied. So many people outdoors, enjoying all the beauty California has to offer. The landscape so alive and green, on the verge of Spring. In case you can’t already tell, I’m going to desperately miss California and how gorgeous and grand it is. How green and fresh it is. The air, the jasmine, the grass, the fields of wildflowers, the trees that crawl the ocean cliff and the coastal oaks in Aptos, the sound of the waves. I’m going to miss the slow life and the sunsets. But most of all, I think I’m going to miss the life that we had begun to build. Right now it’s time to be close to family, but this life of mine isn’t over. So, California. I’ll be back. I promise you. And trust me, when I set my mind to something, it happens. Thank you God, and California for a wonderful 3 years of adventures to Tahoe, Sonoma, Napa, San Francisco, Half Moon Bay and more.

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Life

Unplugging

Happy New Year, friends! Well, I’ve decided to unplug for the month of January and possibly February. I find myself a little too tied to social media these days that I feel like it’s a little unhealthy. Always comparing, always putting all this pressure on myself. Checking my phone constantly, like it’s a nervous tick. Ignoring my husband, ignoring books and other things I could be doing with my down time. Maybe I’ll finish a project around the house, or Gone Girl, or my new logo.  But, for now, I’m deleting my apps from my phone. I’m going to take a break from blogging to regain my thoughts and aspirations.  Who knows what other epiphanies I’ll have when I’m not wasting time on social media. So, until next time . . . have an awesome January and I’ll see you around soon!